The Anglican Planet has a series of articles by Edith Humphrey, Gary Thorne and Dawn MacDonald in response to – Ingham’s “better theology” of sex. Go read them, they shred his logic nicely.
It does puzzle me that this man could have any credibility, considering his bullying of orthodox priests and parishes in his diocese. This is the man who locked a parish out of their building on Christmas eve, for heaven’s sake! (I can’t find the story on the net anymore, if anyone reading this knows where to find it, please leave a link in the comments.)